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    Saturday, January 27, 2007

    not for kids 2

    ~!* Sex (and etc) for the tired .. Part 2 *!~

    Here's something you and your partner can do together after a long day at work:

    -- If you reach home at the same time, immediately take a bath together. If you reach home at different times, wait for the other person to reach home, then take a bath together. If you're impatient, you can take a bath first and then bathe again with him/her later. Treat each other like babies, and bathe each other. Scrub each other, soap each other, wash each other. You might wanna get your partner to brush his/her own teeth, though. Sometimes just doing simple things like bathing together can be enjoyable and since you see & touch each other naked, you might also feel that you've fulfilled something sexual. After the bath, (IF nothing else happens), dry and dress each other up(or not, depending on your preference). Then if you haven't had your dinner, prepare something simple and feed each other. You can do this in your bedroom as long as you don't mess it up. Keep lights on the dim side, and orange lights are more sensual than white. Have lots of plush, throw cushions around, so you can get comfortable on the floor/rug too. Even if you fall asleep after that, you would have done something together and it's definitely more fun than doing all that on your own.

    Before bedtime...
    Sometimes you wanna do something just a little out of the ordinary.
    -- Treat your partner to a striptease show. Let your bed be a stage, and if you have a 4-poster bed, you can do something adventurous with the poles(be careful though...you don't wanna end up getting injured).
    -- Do a lapdance...and the lap isn't the only place you can lapdance.
    -- Play with yourself, with your partner as a spectator.
    -- Play with your partner.
    -- Carry out your daily before bedtime activities as usual, but in the nude.
    -- Have an ice-massage session. That is, massage sensitive parts of your partner's body, but instead of using your fingers alone, do it with ice cubes.
    -- Role-play. You can be doctor-patient, doctor-nurse, police-thief, rapist-victim, rapist-rapist..(eh?)
    -- Read your partner an erotic bedtime story. If possible, act it out.

    We all need to sleep.
    When your body is tired, your mind tells it to go to sleep. Sometimes, it's good to just give in and do sleep, but set your alarm clock a few hours earlier than the time you usually wake up in the morning. Go take a cold bath together. Cuddle together. Do whatever you like together. A man's sexual radars are always more alert in the wee hours of the morning, so this would be the best time to make full use of it. Morning sex can also perk up your mood for the rest of the day.

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    Kids, I told you not to read this. See, there are no R-rated details. Boo you.
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